One of the necessities of life is being prepared for death.
The older you get, the more funerals you are likely to attend and having a funeral-appropriate suit and tie to wear is a must.
Knot Standard suggests conservative and classic.
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Black suits are no longer an absolute must but they still qualify as the most appropriate and most conservative of funeral attire. If you don’t own a black suit or can’t bear to don one, we suggest a dark or charcoal grey or a navy. Either of these latter colors are also acceptable for memorial services. Avoid windowpanes and loud pinstripes in order to be respectful of the sensitivities of the family of the deceased.
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A white dress shirt is essential. Though a black suit and white shirt make for a common waiter’s uniform and we would advise against it in most occasions, funerals are the one occasion when there is a bit of ‘uniformity’ expected in your dress.
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Brighten up your look with a subtly patterned or textured tie and pocket square. Avoid bright orange, red or pink and stick with cooler, calmer shades.
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If you are attending an outdoor or graveside service, a dark colored sport coat and slacks is an acceptable alternative to a suit. Be sure to wear formal shoes, however, and a dress shirt and tie.
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Kind words of condolence, a simple gift of flowers or a card are all good for expressing your support for the bereaved and your sorrow at their loss.